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But these boundaries become more blurred and teachers are more likely to get in a muddle and end up crossing them if they have no way of talking about and beginning to make sense of the feelings they find themselves experiencing.
Once the possibility of intimacy between students and teachers has become a taboo subject, the experience becomes shameful with teachers obliged to hide and hate their feelings.
Every student had imagined the romance of falling for a teacher and every teacher had imagined what it would be like to run off with a student. Sex with anyone under the age of sixteen – however consenting - is illegal in the UK and any sexual relationship between a student and a teacher leads to the teacher’s instant dismissal.
While the story ran, the schoolgirl and her teacher were the objects of everyone’s vicarious interest. I’m not for one moment challenging the rightness of this.
Now they were probably hiding somewhere in France, perhaps in a cheap hotel, perhaps sneaking out for walks together, kissing….
At first there was the worry that the teacher might have killed her but then the story changed as CCTV pictures showed them arm-in-arm as they left the UK on a ferry to France.
I would even change my route to pass his class at times. Then other times, my class was able to get him off topic and he would tell us cool things that always made me laugh.Co-workers fall in love, and yes its taboo, but I don't think its intentional. My view is, it's normal to fall for people, however, they shouldnt be acted on in school. :( Based on what you narrated, chances are big that your professor also is romantically attracted to you.If the feelings are genuine keep it to a minimum and wait until they've finished their school career. the way we look to each other, the way we adjust our breaktime just to see each other in the canteen. 7 months of just looking and looking to each other, smilling with no reasons.until on the 8th month which when i let him felt that i am upset ( because of one situation i encountered with him). one day, i get a simple response (because he never gave any response before) when i sent him a dish that we cooked (I am a HRM student), he told to my classmate, tell her that the food is really great and delicious! the second is, when my classmates asked him if he has a girlfriend and he answered no but he like someone ( i'm just around, when they were talking. However, because he is of 'teacher' position, and he places importance on acting and thinking right (ethically) as a teacher towards students, that's why he didn't respond to your letter or didn't tell you he likes you.But if those feelings can be acknowledged and talked about as inevitabilities rather than as signs of weakness or perversity then teachers are more (rather than less) likely to remain in control of the situation and not end up crossing any boundaries.Teachers, whether they like it or not, are parent-figures.
So, for now, just know it for the fact that by not responding to you or your cues, he actually shows that he cares for you because he doesn't want you to get into trouble, nor does he want you to get into a teacher-student scandal.